Saturday, April 25, 2009

The seven laws of success: Deepak Chopra

Good things come in a pair, that's my new found belief. First Jonathan Livingstone and now this gem from Deepak Chopra. Who doesn't want success? Everyone does! And there are plethora of books – some good, some bad, and some absolutely pathetic – that give you advice on succeeding where others have failed. Now if everyone could become enlightened just by reading and following these books, our world would have been a better place. All these books work on a superficial level, and give you a few days worth of a stimuli which massages your brain and nothing else. Well this book may not give you that kick, but works at a deeper level and if followed will clearly take you to a higher plane. It is also a very short book- all of 39 pages infact – but it conveys a powerful message. So here are the 7 laws of spiritual success according to him:

  • Law of Pure Potentialities

    The source of all creation is pure consciousness, pure potentiality seeking expression from the unmanifest to the manifest. And we have to realize that in order for this law to apply. We can do so through the daily practice of silence, meditation and practice of non-judgment. The silence entails the act of simply being and experiencing silence. Meditation for half hours both in morning and evening makes one more aware and more open to the law of pure potentiality. Non-judgment means forming no judgment about any event, being neutral to all stimuli. Bible says," Judge not ye and be not judged,…" .The other thing that he lays emphasis on is being close to nature, observing the working of it in silence and in contemplation.

  • The Law Of Giving

    The best way to receive the abundance of universe is to give. You should help others get what they want and you would be sowing the seeds of potential success. Whenever you come in contact with someone, keep in mind to leave them with something. The gift might not be materialistic; it can be a compliment or a prayer. Caring, attention, appreciation and love are very precious gifts in fact the most precious gifts and best of all they come free! Make a conscious decision to give wherever you go, to whomever you see. Wish them happiness, joy and laughter.

  • Law Of Karma

    As one sows so shall one reap : this is one of the oldest wisdom and also the least understood. The law of karma or the law of cause and effect exists and is the reason for what we are today and the path we have taken in life. Every time we make a decision or do something we are making a choice. If someone insults us, we make a choice of being sad; and when one appreciates us we become happy- that is our choice. As we go on making these choices we become conditioned to the externalities and any stimulus evokes a certain response from us just like the dog of Pavlov who would salivate at the sound of bell, after being conditioned to the stimuli. Swami Vivekananda said,"
    Karma is the eternal assertion of human freedom.. . . Our thoughts, our words, and deeds are the threads of the net which we throw around ourselves." And the law of karma says that no law in the universe goes unpaid. So whatever actions you did in the past (lives, if you believe in soul),will bear fruits in present lives; and whatever actions you perform now, whether good or bad, will bear fruit in next life. So witness the choices you make in each moment. Be aware of the choices!

  • The Law of Least Effort

    There are three components to the Law of Least Effort, three things you can do to put this principle of "do less and accomplish more" into action. The first component is acceptance. Acceptance simply means that you make a commitment: "Today I will accept people, situations, circumstances, and events as they occur.." You accept things as they are, not as you wish they were in this moment. When you feel frustrated or upset by a person or a situation, remember that you are not reacting to the person or the situation, but to your feelings about the person or the situation. These are your feelings, and your feelings are not someone else's fault.

    This leads us to the second component of the Law of Least Effort: responsibility. What does responsibility mean? Responsibility means not blaming anyone or anything for your situation, including yourself. Having accepted this circumstance, this event, this problem, responsibility then means the ability to have a creative response to the situation as it is now. There is a hidden meaning behind all events, and this hidden meaning is serving your own

    evolution.

    The third component of the Law of Least Effort is defenselessness, which means that your awareness is established in defenselessness, and you have relinquished the need to convince or persuade others of your point of view. If you observe people around you, you'll see that they spend ninety-nine percent of their time defending their points of view. If you just relinquish the need to defend your point of view, you will in that relinquishment, gain access to enormous amounts of energy that have been previously wasted. Completely desist from defending your point of view. When you have no point to defend, you do not allow the birth of an argument. When you remain open to all points of view, not rigidly attached to only one, your dreams and desires will flow with nature's desires.

  • Law of Intention and Desire

    This law is based on the fact that energy and information exist everywhere in nature. Your body is not separate from the body of the universe, because at quantum mechanical levels there are no well-defined edges. You can consciously change the energy and informational content or your own quantum mechanical body, and this conscious change is brought about by the two qualities inherent in consciousness: attention and intention. Attention energizes, and intention transforms. How many among us know that a single cell in the human body is doing about six trillion things per second, and it has to know what every other cell is doing at the same time. This is talked about by Buddha. The symphony of universe is played on the human body. One has to become aware of it. Intention is the real power behind desire. Intent alone is very powerful, because intent is desire without attachment to the outcome. Desire alone is weak, because desire in most people is attention with attachment. Relinquish your attachment to the outcome. This means giving up your rigid attachment to a specific result and living in the wisdom of uncertainty. It means enjoying every moment in the journey of your life, even if you don't know the outcome. Let the universe handle the details. Trust that infinite organizing power of intention to orchestrate all the details for you.

  • The Law of pure Detachment

    The Law of Detachment says that in order to acquire anything in the physical universe, you have to relinquish your attachment to it. This doesn't mean you give up the intention to create your desire. You don't give up the intention, and you don't give up the desire. You give up your attachment to the result. Attachment, on the other hand, is based on fear and insecurity, and the need for security is based on not knowing the true Self. When you understand this law, you don't feel compelled to force solutions. When you force solutions on problems, you only create new problems. Make the following mantra: Today I will commit myself to detachment. I will allow myself and those around me the freedom to be as they are. I will not rigidly impose my idea of how things should be.

  • The Law of Dharma or Purpose in life

    There are three components to the Law of Dharma. The first component says that each of us is here to discover our true Self; each of us is here to discover our higher self or our spiritual self. That's the first fulfillment of the Law of Dharma. We must find out for our self that inside us is a god or goddess in embryo that wants to be born so that we can express our divinity. The second component of the Law of Dharma is to express our unique talents. The Law of Dharma says that every human being has a unique talent. You have a talent that is unique in its expression, so unique that there's no one else alive on this planet that has that talent, or that expression of that talent. This means that there's one thing you can do, and one way of doing it, that is better than anyone else on this entire planet. The third component of the Law of Dharma is service to humanity, to serve your fellow human beings and to ask yourself the questions, .How can I help? How can I help all those that I come into contact with? Ask yourself, if money was no concern and you had all the time and money in the world, what would you do? If you would still do what you currently do, then you are in dharma, because you have passion for what you do, you are expressing your unique talents. Swami Vivekananda said that each soul is potentially divine. Discover your divinity, find your unique talent, serve humanity with it, and you can generate all the wealth that you want.


     

We are travelers on a cosmic journey, star-dust, swirling and dancing in the eddies and whirlpools of infinity. Life is eternal. But the expressions of life are ephemeral, momentary, and transient. Gautama Buddha, the founder of Buddhism, once said, this existence of ours is as transient as autumn clouds. To watch the birth and death of beings is like looking at the movements of a dance. A lifetime is like a flash of lightning in the sky, rushing by like a torrent down a steep mountain.

We have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share. This is a precious moment, but it is transient. It is a little parenthesis in eternity. If we share with caring, lightheart-edness, and love, we will create abundance and joy for each other. And then this moment will have been worthwhile.

Jonathan Livingstone Seagull by Richard Bach

Reading is a good habit to develop and at times when you come across books like Jon Seagull you thank your stars for the gift you have. Certainly there are other good books like Siddharth, Autobiography of a yogi etc, but the thing going for this book is that it is more of a sort of a short story that you can finish in half hour. But it will force you to think and if you dig a little deeper you would be amazed at the beauty and truth of the lesson contained therein.
Well I had heard about the book but was unaware about its content. I had no inkling abouth what kind of book it was and though I had opportunities to read the book before, somehow I always ignored it for the more racy fiction titles. So it was today that I came across it again in an eBook format and having nothing better to do decided to read it. And I am glad that I did.

In the start we are introduced to Jonathan Livingstone who is somewhat different from the other gulls of the flock. While others think of nothing more than eating, Jon thinks about flight and how he can overcome the limitations. His mother asks him at one point,” Why is it, so hard to be like others in the flock, Jon?”. And he replies,” I just want to know what I can do and what I can’t”.

And so he is turned out of flock for daring to think and act differently. But he doesn’t stop to practice and is in search for new dimensions of flying, and it is through him that we know these priceless wisdoms : …And it was pretty just to stop thinking [ Very correct according to me as very few among us like to really think and are satisfied in rolling along with the life. How many among us can sit alone with themselves without any stimuli like book, tv or drugs? ]. And then, “….the most important thing in living was to reach out and touch perfection in that (one loves to do )….”.

And in time he perfects many flights and a time comes when he is asked into another world where he can go higher. So he goes there and meets characters like Sullivan and Chiang. At one point Sullivan asks him,” Do you have any idea how many lives we must have gone through before we even got the first idea that there is more to life than eating or fighting or power in the flock? “, and continuing says,”… there is such a thing as perfection….. our purpose for living is to find that perfection and show it forth.”

Then Chiang implies to him that,” heaven is not a place or a time. Heaven is being perfect….. and … perfect speed my son is being there.” The most important lesson taught by chiang, the elder of the council is that a gull’s nature lived everywhere at once across space and time. And one could go anywhere by being aware of this truth.

So Jon on feeling empathy for other flocks on earth returns to earth to teach them to fly better. And at one point asks,”Why is it the hardest thing in the world is to convince a bird that he is free.” His wisdom:
• Every thing that limits us, we have to put aside.
We’re free to go where we wish and to be what we are.
• The only true law is that which leads to freedom.
• You’ve to practice and see the real gull, the good in every one of them …..
• And in the end, “ You need to keep finding yourself, a little more everyday” , at the point of parting with Fletcher.
It is definitely a must read story. The amount of wisdom contained inside applies to our daily lives. Though it is a story about the gulls, they think and act like humans. The banishment of Jon because he dared to be different; he being called the son of the Great Gull ; and later being called a devil as he brings Fletcher back to life…. All these are (loose) symbolisms of the life of Christ. And the central idea that each man is free and can come to know so by his search for perfection in whatever he does or loves to do. And that one will have to do all the hard work himself, there is no shortcut.

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Congress advises Arjun Singh to read Gita

The present elections are sure at a fun time!The public has become more educated in the previous 5 yrs than cumulatively in the prior 56yrs. The shoegate scandle is the new weapon of politician destruction. Apna Chidu bhai (Sorry! it's Mr.Chidambaram, (soon to be ex)-home minister),couldn't escape it.And that too a brandless shoe!It must have hurt.Then apna mati ke lal, Lauh purush, had to undergo the same treatment.Imagine the next PM of India,Yaar!Atleast some izzat ka khayal to karti public!
And the best thing is that apna Modi bhai is no longer attending rallies with the same tempo.Akhir he is the next next PM of India.Kahan gale mein kamal ki maala honi chahiye, kahan log jooton ki baat karte hain.Ama ye bhi koi baat hai yaar? Ek to public service karo aur upar se joote bhi khao!

Now comes the most interesting part, that of Arjun singh.Mr Singh is upset over the denial of party tickets to his son Ajay Singh and daughter Veena Singh.So bechare kya karen? Chalo purani aadat hai,TV channel par bol diya that he was “shocked” at the treatment being meted out to loyalists. He felt that there was no reward for loyalty in Congress.
Ab bhai koi inko samjhaye, he has been in education ministry;he is the champion of backward rights;he is anti forward(anti brahmin in fact)- Purane kaal mein caste system aise hi aaya tha, baap bolta tha mera beta bhi wahi karega jo maine kiya : To Arjun ji, aap apne bete ke pher mein mat pado, nahin to politics mein bhi ek class or caste aajeyga! Aapko chahiye kisi backward caste ke liye lado- usko seat dilao!

Magar nahi,bhai saheb hum to politics mein hain.Humein to apni gotiyan sekni hain.Abhi tak jo mandal,mandal chillaye uska phal to milna chahiye na.Bus beta,beti set ho jaayen to agle baar ki ministry mein ek cabinet birth pucca! Arre Arjun ji, aadmi kaya,kuch aadh dasak zindgi baki; moh maya chodo aur Ram bhajan karo!Aise bhi public aajkal thodi jyada samajhdar hai,sidhe chappal phenkti hai. Aur is dhalti dupahariya mein ek chappal--Raam,Raam,Tauba aapke dushmano par!

Congress party bhi badi samajhdar.It retorted by saying “working for the party and believing in it was its own reward”. Le,isse badhkar kya hai bhai! Ye party to Ramrajya lana cahti hai!Internal merit pe ticket milega : O Ji, jyada smart banke kya fayada. Sabse zyada criminal candidate tumhare party se.Aur to aur Sikh riot ka natiza you blotched;Bhopal gas tragedy ka kuch nahin hoga?

Agar har nakami par ek joota lage to ba kayeda congress wale joote bech kar crorepati ban jayenge!Phir bhi congress ka haath, aam admi ke saath!
Issi baat pe olo Siyawar Ramchandra Ki Jai!